This week, Ashton and I went to the Autism Clinic at Seattle Children's Hospital to get the results of some testing that the doctors there did on our daughter 7, and our son, 9. They have previously both been diagnosed with Fragile X Syndrome (http://www.fragilex.org/) and also with Autism, but we were told by our Fragile X specialist (Dr. Glew) here in Seattle that we should go and get them assessed. They both also have a diagnosis of Autism.
I took both kids separately for 2 visits each so that they could take IQ tests and a test to see if they are Autistic. The testing was a little tough for our son 9 because he doesn't really work well with people he doesn't know. The Autism test that they gave him took him about 5 minutes to complete because he wouldn't answer any of their questions.
Anyway, when Ashton and I went to get the results, it was interesting that they found that our son, age 9, has the IQ of a two year 7 month old and our daughter 7 has the IQ of a 5 year old. That's what I've been telling people, so I guess we were better on target with that number than I thought.
The specialists gave us some advice on therapy that would help 7 and 9 to succeed. We are going to do a social skills group for our daughter to help her learn to interact with people better. The drs said that she has high functioning Autism. They said that 9 could use some behavior therapy to help him overcome some of the anger issues he faces when asked to work or transition.
I pray that I am up to the challenge. Therapy takes a lot out of me as I do a lot of it at home -- they teach us how to do the therapy and then we implement at home.
Interestingly, this week in seminary, I taught about the premortal existence and how all of us who are here on the earth are valiant and chose Heavenly Father's plan to come and be tested. 7 and 9 are being tested in other ways than the rest of us -- they don't really see good or evil, just people, and they are innocent. Their trials will be more overcoming what is happening within themselves than what is happening around them. Our trial as parents is seeing how others treat them and seeing how different they are and not being sad that they can't do what other kids their age do. They are teaching me to accept everyone for who they are and what they can do and joy in it.
